We often see people with new inspirations. New dreams and new goals. It’s exciting, it’s positive, and you only wish for their success. Then for some reason shit hits the fan and you see the light slowly start to dim on their once bright new goals. Dreams come crashing down. And it’s back to what always has been…
It is our excuses that constantly hold us back. Maybe it was a long vacation of “fuck it mode”, maybe it was a tragic event in your life, maybe it was a long exhausting stretch of shifts at work. Whatever that reason may be it is important to start being bigger than our excuses. No matter what!
If your going to talk the talk, you have to walk the walk. That’s all it comes down to. If you REALLY want to make a positive change, better yourself, or grow as a person you have to come back to today and back to the present moment.
The majority of us I find are either stuck in the past or fretting about the future. “Well I can’t do this because this happened to me” or “I’m going to be too busy taking care of this to do that”. But what about right now? What are you actually doing right now other than talking?
I know it sounds rather harsh but our only way to come back to our goals is to stop talking and start doing… You have to come back to your goals and back to your dreams! The only way to get there is to ditch the excuses that are holding you back.
But if you’re 100% happy with you and what you’re doing for yourself right now, then great. Give yourself some recognition, be proud of yourself and SPREAD that positive self energy around and let people know YOU love YOU, and that you have worked hard and are a proud person so they have permission to succeed and love themselves.
But if you aren’t happy or even have a seed of doubt in who you are becoming and feel negatively about your accomplishments then you need to stop talking and DO. Just take it one day at a time. Don’t be thinking about tomorrow. Don’t be thinking about one month from now UNLESS it’s going to motivate you to get at er.
We all have the opportunity to work towards our goals and be the best we can be every single day. So what are you going to do TODAY, in this very moment to achieve, feel better about yourself, and grow as a person? Forget about how much you fucked up yesterday. Forget about all the mistakes you’re going to make moving forward because YOU will fuck up again that’s a guarantee.
But how you are going to come back to you and your dreams is all that really honestly matters. Being resilient is coming back from your mishaps. Shaking it off. Finding new motivation. Asking yourself why and fighting for that why.
Now get back in the moment and go kill it, I know you can!